Teens who have good friends who drink are likely to get their first drink from a friend, rather than from family, revealed a study reported on by livescience.com: “In the study, having pals who drank and had access to booze was the most important factor in predicting when a kid started drinking — trumping a teen’s own trouble-making tendencies and a family history of alcoholism.”
I couldn’t help but think of the times I, in my quest to be cool and popular, brought little “airline” bottles of alcohol (which I had gotten from my parents’ liquor cabinet) to the junior high dances. And I appeared to most people, including the parents of my friends, as a “good kid.” I wonder which of my friends back then were introduced to alcohol by me?
So be alert and aware, parents, to the influences on your teens. And remember, that boy or girl who has been coming to your house since kindergarten may change, and take a different path from the one you want your teen to travel.